How to make a good impression
As an individual and the basic social unit, one has to acquaint, interact, and communicate with one another. In the first place, one need to meet with others, so in view of longstanding relations development, one must make a good impression on others, which is in order to establish a cornerstone and stepping stone for it. Therefore we come to the question: what’s the meaning of the word “Impression”? In my point of view, the meaning of the word is about the feelings about others and their behaviors. Furthermore, we can conclude that the matter is just about how to make others feel good about you and your behaviors. I will talk about its primary principles to make a good impression as follows.
Occasion
When one loses his way in wildness, with a campus and map, he should first find where he is. In the case of interacting affairs, so is it. A wise man could always be skilled in observing and then conducts his actions to adjust to atmospheres and circumstances. On the contrary, a fool may all the time focus on his enjoying or personal affairs regardless of specters and places which he is faced with. As a result, the two, in most cases, would receive two right-down different treatments: admiration and getting-away. So the wise always take the former way.
Aim
If one wants to shoot arrow, the first thing coming to his mind is consistently where and what the aim exactly is. The theory obviously goes for the matter. When one participates in one social activity, he needs to make clear that who he is about to deal with, which always contributes to give others’ a good impression. And in the respect, the knowledge to master involves: gender, age, class, education degree…etc, which in most times is intersected to make the affair more complicated. So knowing better of the people you are interacting with is a hard but still essential task to make a better impression of one person.
Friendliness
While the indifference separates two souls by a deep gap, friendliness bridges the gap. As we all know, friendliness makes the world so different in its excellent merits, the most important of which, in my opinion, is that it sows the deed of friendships as the intention to be aquatinted with one another. At the same time, those behaviors and actions filled with friendliness show cares and mercy for another, which is just most treasured by people.
Politeness
As one walks through a company of people, clean and tidy dressing will unfailingly makes him attractive. In the sort of activities, politeness can not only do this as clothing dose, but do more, which means that the man in politeness shows both the external beauty and the internal one. And the man will be surely thought to be well bred and be popular with his would-be friends and existing ones. So we can never ignore its value in interacting and making a good impression.
In reality, a good impression could be affected by various factors, which inevitably contains some fixed and unstable ones. The ones I mention above are believed to be most important principles to make a good impression and establish friendships by people. As for the unstable ones, such as other people’s characters, molds, personal habits…and so on, these factors play some undeniable and even decisive role in determining a good impression or bad one. Moreover, the dressing, cleanness, physical appearance and others could acts as fixed and unstable ones at the same time. On the whole, all factors work jointly, in social activities, to make and decide an impression of one person.
To master the knowledge of making a good impression, everyone need to learn of it continually, and fortunately one has the rest of his life to carry it out.